Money Loves These 10 Things…

How to have a healthy relationship with money is something we all ask, especially given that finance related stress has been soaring in the past months.

This may be radical for many of us, but getting along with money is like getting along with a friend, it requires honesty and nurturing. Bear in mind though, this friend, money, has been misunderstood and taken the blame for human greed or centuries, so there is a lot unpacking to do.

Although money cannot buy happiness, a healthy relationship with money can certainly bring more peace and clarity. If money were a person, they would want you to know these 10 things.

1. Money loves open-minded receivers.

Money wants you to succeed.

But money will struggle to make it to your bank account if you have heavy or rigid assumptions on how you will receive it.

Want to turn it around? Take a moment to reflect the subconscious beliefs you have about money. If any of them strike you as negative or toxic such as “I’m not a good custodian of money”, “Bills can be paid late”, “managing money is too complex or difficult”, “I don’t deserve to be paid or supported”,  then go through each of them and reprogram your mindset.

Money wants to assist you in manifesting what feels important to you: be it freedom, quality time, peace…whatever matters to you the most.

This may sound counter-intuitive, but when you are open-minded about how you will receive money, you will stop agonizing over any obsessions or frustrations but become more relaxed and confident.

2. Money loves being paid attention to.

Your relationship with money needs quality time, skills, patience and trust to grow and thrive. Money does not want to be taken for granted. Give money your gratitude and thanks, your dedication and attentiveness.

Keep educating yourself in this area.

It is easy to feel stressed out about money, the antidote is to bring mindfulness into your money affairs. So that your relationship with money is no longer dominated by fear or anxiety.

You don’t need to wait for everything to be perfect.

Start with something simple, such as setting a direct debit to pay off your credit card bill in full each month, reflecting on your recent spending pattern, reviewing your product/service pipeline, getting clarity in how much you need & where you are now…

Self-knowledge and peace build up from small rituals and mindful actions like the above. Get started today.

3. Money loves commitment.

Commitment separates the earnest from the rest.

“Until one is committed, there is hesitancy, the chance to draw back, always ineffectiveness…the moment one definitely commits himself, the providence moves, too.”

– William Hutchinson Murray

You probably have had at least one experience so far when your commitment is so strong that resources and support (including money) showed up from the woodwork: encouraging people suddenly reach out to help you, funds becoming available to pursuing your dream…

Dedicate your time and attention to what is meant to be done.

Let go of wishy washy, procrastination or excuses.

Don’t let perfectionism stop you from moving towards your goal. Money responds to momentum, and commitment generates that solid, healthy momentum.

Launch, learn, tweak; 

Re-launch, learn more & tweak again…And enjoy your growth during this process.

4. Money loves collaboration with an empowered being.

From fulfilling your lifelong dream to providing for your loved ones, money wants to assist you in making things happen.

It’s easy for money to support you when you have a healthy sense of self-worth.

Money cannot buy happiness, however, it can support you in getting the right self-care, allowing you to respect your boundary and having freedom.

Money loves it when you believe in yourself.

Money loves seeing you pay your own salary (even if you are the solopreneur).

Money loves being respected – ie, communicate your terms of business with clarity and empathy.

5. Money loves love.

The type of focus on money in our society collectively has been toxic: fear-based, passive-aggressive, and punishment-driven…Such notions promote avoidance and resentment.

However, how we see money can be entirely up to ourselves.

If you love the support which money can provide for you, then show some appreciation towards it. It will be a relief for both you and money.

What if money has your back, what if it catches you when you fall, even if you are not sure how you are going to land safely on the ground?

If you have noticed any money blocks which make you feel powerless or resentful, then have the intention and determination to release them. Your needs will always be met.

6. Money loves going around.

Money gets stale once it is in a static or stagnant mode. When it is moving around and about, it will make the situation refreshing and vital again.

Money loves you and money loves the wider community too. Donate, invest, re-invest, buy gifts for others, support good causes …all great to open up your money flows.

7. Money loves being tapped into.

Like everything else, money is an energy. Money loves it when you stop denying abundance, whether it is a genuine compliment or a physical gift.

The attitude towards money you picked up since childhood can still influence your emotions and decision-making today.

Our culture has a strange relationship with money, obsession or hatred, however neither idolizing material gains or playing avoidance is healthy. There is a more uplifting and balanced view on money.

Money loves it when you go deeper than the façade, always examine your assumptions: is this true or did I just unconsciously pick it up from somewhere?

8. Money loves being at one with you.

As an energetic being, money has a unique connection with you. It wants to feel at one with you, your talents, your gifts and your services.

Money can be a very helpful tool to contribute to a healthier ecology. Let money serve the introspective, limitless, graceful, and courageous being inside you.

Many creative people who have an online presence suffer the “small following shame”. They are very talented and ready to share their skills yet are under immense social media pressure that you need to have a big following to be able to do your work.

This cannot be further from the truth. For centuries, many people have been able to live a simple life and run a simple business model, they are at one with abundance.

We all need to start from somewhere. So start here and now, ask how you can make a positive impact on one person’s life today, this will change your perspective and release any “social proof” related anxiety that might not serve your actual growth.

Being at one with money and knowing that money is right here to support you living your purpose can help you let go of any insecurity and focus on what really matters.

9. Money loves helping you heal your past wounds.

Money loves being a faithful mirror, to reflect any injuries, judgments, resentment you might have.

Of course, there are many systematic problems existing in the world, however, for the scope of this post, which is to do our best on the parts that we can control, we can let money help us to see where we still need to heal or grow.

Your financial behaviour is part of the mechanism of how you navigate and respond to the world.

Sometimes, money problems expose the underlying challenges in us.
For instance, if you are disorganised, finance could be one of the first areas to show.

Or if you have no problem with giving but having trouble to receive, you might find yourself stuck with non-reciprocal business connections.

Money loves being an honest friend with you, to guide you on how you can love yourself more fearlessly, how you can accept yourself unconditionally. It doesn’t sugar coat, but pushes you to be honest with yourself: what needs more attention and mending.

10. Money loves being honoured.

Whenever we make money related mistakes, we carry shame and feel inadequate. We may even avoid talking about it at all costs. However, if we break the silence, accept what went wrong and more importantly what can be done to improve the situation, we can gain a lot through the experience.

I once invested in a year long program – it wasn’t a complete shambles, but I had outgrown it within 3 months. In the mean time, the customer service went downhill, and so many classmates (including myself) wanted a refund. By the time, I requested one, it was already out of the guarantee time. I could have kept trying to get my money back on the ground that the marketing message was so misleading. However, once I tuned in, I realised that it was my responsibility to take action (eg, raise my concern before the guarantee lapses, communicate with the course leader that I wasn’t very happy with the program), which I didn’t rectify early enough. That was actually my lesson to learn how to honour my own decision and take 100% responsibility of any purchase decision.

I decided to let go in the end, it wasn’t an easy decision. It was a mid 4-figure investment, and I thought “what a waste of money”.

But I’ve grown up so much since then. Instead of spending my energy trying to get a refund, I put my attention and intention fully into my own business and services.

Guess what, within months, I got my initial investment back and much more…(going back to point #1 – being open-minded in terms of ways to receive money).

If you’ve made any purchase decision in the past, honour it, forgive yourself and learn from your mistake. The quicker you do that, the faster money will find its way back to you!

Love & Abundance,

Ready to dive deeper? Check out the Money Course: Money First Aid Kit that I’ve made for creative and spiritual entrepreneurs just like you.

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